I guess you've seen this intro video? Very informative on how the system is used:
An introduction to Arca Swiss R cameras by Rod Klukas on Vimeo
I also like this Luminous Landscape review video
Arca Swiss Rm3d Review on Vimeo (note that the reviewers are both dedicated ALPA users)
I have not used the RM3Di, but while waiting for responses from real users I can present some aspects "good to think about" concerning what the camera is capable of.
* tilt is built-in to the body which is a great cost saver compared to Cambo and Alpa.
* tilt is only +/- 5 degrees. For longer lenses/close work (shooting flowers etc) this can be a limitation, but for typical landscape grand scenes its not
* tilt cannot be made diagonally, only forward/backward or left/right, typically not limiting for grand landscape scenes though, as it is almost always about small tilts forward.
* compared to the Techno or other view camera the lens mount cost is high, if you want many lenses the lens cost gets higher.
* if you like to carry around long lenses it can get a bit bulky
* if you want to make pano stitches I prefer a sliding back with click-stops (Techno) rather than gear-turning on the back (RM3Di) as it can be a bit slow
* while the primary operation of the camera is with a viewfinder and thus approximate framing, some do use ground glass for framing, and the rotaslide sliding back can be used if you want to (I've got conflicting info if it's compatible with infinity focusing or not though, I think it is but needs double-check).
I'm a Techno user myself and of course hope that you would choose that instead ;-). Concerning pancake cameras RM3Di would have been the number one alternative though, due to the integrated tilt and high precision focusing, and possibility to extend the system to include an MF-two view camera for greater movement flexibility if would need it.
Movement comparison:
RM3Di: Back Vertical Rise/Fall 30/20mm, Back Lateral Shift +/- 15mm. Tilt +/-5 degrees. Camera can be mounted on the side or upside down to change vertical shift and tilt direction.
Techno: back vertical shift +/-20mm, front rise +20mm, Back lateral shift fixed click-stop on sliding back only -17/0/+17mm, Front lateral shift +/-10mm. Tilt +/-10 degress, Swing +/-10 degrees.
The Techno advantages are best shown if you use many focal lengths including longer ones and often use tilt, and if you would use the ground glass regardless of camera. If you work mostly/only with wides, dislike the ground glass then RM3Di is best. If you shoot at f/8 or f/5.6 often you will love the focusing precision of the RM3Di, if you shoot at f/11 my experience is that the ground glass focusing precision is adequate, but I need a 20x loupe to be satisfied (most only use 6x - 10x)